Monday, February 15, 2016

Jacob Bogage's Facebook Post with Comments

Jacob caught for us for the whole time the team was together.  Kevin, being a catcher himself, took it upon Jacob to relay all of the finer points of the position to Jacob.   In the comments, Dylan was with the team for most of our run and played mostly first base.

Got word Monday morning my old baseball coach, Kevin O’Reilly, died Sunday of brain and lung cancer. He coached this team, the Rockville Rangers, from the time I was 11 years old until I was 14. He was the toughest man I’ve ever been around. (He’s in the top left corner of this photo with his hand around my shoulder.) He was gruff. He was the first coach I played for who cursed at his players, who ran us hard and really taught us about life: what it meant to have a work ethic, to push yourself further than you thought possible, to not take ourselves so seriously. I’m honored — honored — to have played for him, and no remembrance would be complete without a couple stories.
Here goes:

Coach served in Vietnam and wouldn’t let us forget it. If it rained, he’d tell us, “This isn’t Vietnam rain.” When it was hot, “This isn’t Vietnam heat.” When we asked for bug spray: “These aren’t Vietnam bugs.” To which I now say, bullshit, and I’d like to visit Vietnam someday so he can prove me wrong.

We’d play in tournaments every year on Memorial Day and instead of a post-game speech after those games, he’d tell us about his time in the service, about carrying your body weight in gear while traipsing through the jungle. Then he’d pick up my catcher’s gear and haul it back to the parking lot from the field. It was the one day a year that he’d carry bags, something normally reserved for the rest of the team. Afterward, he’d hop in his car and ride downtown to see Rolling Thunder.

One of my problems as a 12-year-old (and indeed today) was struggling to force myself to focus, and Coach took it upon himself to teach me such a skill. He made me slow down and breathe and think and evaluate myself. After each inning, he’d grab my by the collar of my chest protector and pull my face close to his to ask me about the pitches I called, or the bunt defense we were in. “Think,” he’d tell me with increasing volume. “Think. Think.”

Never has a man so devoted to the game and its players set foot on a baseball diamond. He’ll be deeply missed.

“Hold it like an egg. Throw it like a hand grenade.”

Dylan Jaffe Well said my man, really upset to hear about this but you summed it up. He'd be proud of all of us.
Gerry Blackwell Jacob, your tribute brought back so many memories of Coach. The one that always seems to remind me of a his approach to coaching was one of the 12u playoff games that we played at Atholton High School. Early in the game JM got hit by a pitch. Not too bad, JM jogged down to first base rubbing his side. As soon as he reached first, the pitcher called for time, ran over to JM, reached out and shook his hand and apologized. I looked over at Coach O coaching third and he was shaking his head. JM ended up stranded on the bases that inning and he walked off the field with Coach. I asked Kevin what he told JM on the way to the dugout he said “I told him 'Next time someone apologizes for hitting you with a pitch, look him in the eye and say 'Is that all you got?''” Kevin was a stickler for the integrity of the game. Getting hit by a pitch, intentional or not, was part of the game. As he would say, “a baseball is 5 ounces, it is NOT a hand grenade!” He must have liked the hand grenade analogies. I use that phrase often as coach to this day!
Jacob Bogage I think it was my brother who got hit in the nose by a bad hop at practice and before we left practice, he took us aside and said, "You know what you're gonna tell your father?" And we said, no. "You should see the other guy," he said, and he winked at us.
Gerry Blackwell
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Ellen Bogage As Jacob and Aaron's mom, I went through a progression of feelings about Coach O. My first reaction was one of horror when he cursed a blue streak at the team. "My poor innocent children," I would lament. It wasn't long before I would see how incredibly smart he was and how focused he was on making our boys the best players and men they could be. Here's my favorite Coach O story: We were at practice one day and one of our players hit a screaming line drive towards third base. Coach O happened to be standing there. He simply held out his hand, calmly caught the ball and threw it back to the pitcher all in one motion. All of us just stood there with our jaws dropping but for Coach O it was nothing. I guess he was thinking, "It's not a Viet Nam line drive!" We think of him and Coach Jerry so often and talk about those days with bittersweet memories. Coach O was truly a gift to my children and for that I am most grateful. The angels in heaven better shape up before he gets there!

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